Are you the type of person who always has to have the latest clothes, smart technology or gym gear?
If you answered yes to this question, you could be a person who likes to indulge in instant reward (instant gratification), rather than exercising self-control in return for a potentially greater reward in the future.
Instant gratification was first researched about 40 years ago by psychologist, Walter Mischel, in what has become known as the ‘marshmallow test’. The experiment tested children’s ability, or inability, to curb their urge to have one marshmallow immediately (instant gratification) rather than wait and receive two marshmallows, as promised to them, at a later time (delayed gratification).
This test still seems relevant today, so it’s not surprising that many of us choose to eat our marshmallow now, rather than wait, and possibly get a bigger reward at a later date.
In today’s materialistic, throwaway society, we’ve been bombarded with messages convincing us that instant gratification makes us feel better. Combine that with the pace of modern life giving us easy access to credit and rapid changes in technology, instant gratification is tempting us all.
But while instant gratification might make us feel good in the short term, it may not help us achieve our longer term goals.
Delayed gratification, by exercising self-control, allows you to resist the urge to have an instant reward now with the aim of a better reward down the track.
For example, you could give up your daily coffee and put the money aside to save for your next holiday, go without sugary treats to help you lose weight, or contribute to your super to help you save for a comfortable retirement.
And while exercising self-control isn’t easy and sometimes not so fun, resisting temptation can have its own rewards, such as imagining how you can indulge yourself once you’ve finally achieved your goal!
The next time you want to impulse-buy online or at the checkout, pause and think about whether you really need to spend the money now. Divert your impulse and think about what you could do with the money instead.
Some ways you could utilise delayed gratification to help achieve your longer term goals:
Exercising delayed gratification can help you to take control of many aspects of your life, so why not start with your finances?
Whether your goal is to be debt-free, save enough to buy a property or to have a comfortable retirement, we can help you. Start a conversation with us today for professional advice on how to achieve your financial goals.
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